You are never alone.. you have your own space.

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There are five of us in total. We are between the ages of 28 and 32 and we’re all working. It’s a nice mix. Everyone comes and goes at different times  and there is always someone around.  You are never alone.. you have your own space.

 

I think it was a case of timing for me and it just made sense. I work in Belfast and I’m doing my yoga teacher training and there’s so much going on. I can walk to work now in 20 minutes without spending over an hour commuting.

 

 

I’ve lived here for… not even 2 months. Before this I was at home with my family, 2 parents, 1 brother and 2 sisters.

 

I did a placement year at university in America … And then most recently I lived in New Zealand for a couple of years. I lived in Wanaka but worked on a boat, one week on, one week off, in Fiordland. So, I kind of had two homes there. I spent most of my time living on a boat. We shared a cabin with someone from the other crew. You just put your stuff in a crate and it went under the bed for your week off. We had a wardrobe and a side unit with 2 sides, so you left some stuff there, some you brought home with you, the rest of it was in my house.   I had very little compared to what I have here and if I was travelling I mightn’t go home every week.

 

 

It took a bit of getting used to – being in one place. A big change. I’d gone from travelling 3 and a half hours to get to work every week, for a week. And then spending my week off adventuring – because essentially I was off. But I was very thankful to come home and have a roof over my head and be surrounded by my family.

 

Our family home is at the edge of the Lough… so it’s country, large property and farm. It is as old as I am, built when I was about 5. So, it’s 27 years old, something like that. When I was heading off travelling I knew I would be away at least for a year so I got rid of a lot of stuff. And even when I came back I still had so much stuff. So, you get rid of some more. The school books in particular you look at them and think – why? I’m never going to use them again. Things you forget you studied.

 

Now that I’ve moved up here I have a complete wardrobe and when I go ‘Home home’ every other weekend, or whatever, there’s still a full wardrobe there – even though I could survive with less.

 

 

 

This house has a lot of character. It’s one of the only stand-alone houses and has all the original mouldings and everything.   I have the smallest room but having lived in a cabin on a boat. I thought, this space is bigger, I can do this. It’s just me.

 

I know people who live in quite small apartments and they have tiny little box rooms and don’t have the luxury of a huge living room and our study room. So, I think space-wise it’s great compared to others that I know. I had a look round and thought. Yeah. Good location and a little bit of outdoor space as well. On a nice evening you can sit outside.

 

If I hadn’t felt that almost a gut instinct I probably wouldn’t have said “yeah I will move in”….. Thankfully no smokers either. We are all pretty fit and active in this house.

 

 

I joke that it was the spice rack that sold it for me. I love a good collection of spices…..

 

Everyone keeps most of their things in their own rooms. All the crockery, glasses, pots and pans is shared. We each have our own cupboard for food and a couple of shelves in each fridge. We’ve got 2 fridges. That way it manages itself pretty well – for five of us. We all divide up the wi-fi and electric. The gas we take turns in topping it up. It’s all recorded.

 

We don’t really have a cleaning rota. We all just do a little bit.

 

 

 

Thankfully my room already had furniture: a bed, wardrobe, drawers, table and chair. I really didn’t need very much … to move in I just sort of decorated it with little ornaments… There’s not much wall space. It’s white, there’s a new carpet.. I just stuck a poster up.

 

I think because it’s a small space it forces me to keep it tidy….

 

 

 

It’s a real open house. Everyone is super-friendly. There will be people coming and going all the time. We tend to sit round and have a cup of tea or there’s certain programmes that people watch we all pile into the living room and chat and catch up. Everyone has their own room and the little study room as well which is good as I am able to work from home. Or I can do my studying for yoga teacher training.

 

When I was younger I used to be a bit more precious about where things were and how tidy things were. But having gone travelling and living in a hostel you quickly become used to people being around. If you take the nice side of it, there’s always someone to talk to, someone’s story to learn, then that’s a good thing.

 

I’m probably up the earliest. I’ve got a yoga mat in my room and one downstairs. I get up and do my practice either in my room or downstairs, between meditation and practice it’s about half an hour. It’s a very gentle start to the day and you feel like you’ve done something more than just ‘gone to work’.

 

Some mornings we see each other. But I think that most of us tend to have breakfast in work. It’s not like we are all hanging around trying to make things. I will have prepared my lunch the night before so it’s only a case of just lifting it out of the fridge. We have 2 bathrooms so there’s no real rush for showers. It’s pretty staggered.

 

 

I think I brought my re-arranging dynamic to the house. The micro-wave used to be over here and the table used to be turned the other way and it was all quite close. This is one of the guy’s food cupboards and he was in and out all the time trying to get stuff. I said: “Could we just move this?”. So we swapped it over there. And there used to be lots of stuff on the benches, and I am a clear-bench person, so I swapped the shelves with a different unit to give more storage.

 

I haven’t done that much. … I re-arranged the cupboards. The plates were in that far corner and some of the girls aren’t that tall. “Could we just move them down here –  do a swap.” I find it easier to review and make changes than start with a clean slate.

 

 

 

I think most places around here are rented. You notice the difference when uni term time starts again…. That’s the one thing that differed for me from being ‘Home’. Like, I don’t know any of my neighbours. I don’t have that sense of community, whereas when you are growing up, especially in a rural environment, then more or less everyone that I live around has been there for my entire life. You know them pretty well. Up here, I know I’ve only been here a couple of months, but I don’t think any of the others know anyone.

 

You’ve got your own space, it can be your own little sanctuary ….There’s always someone here and you just feel really comfortable when you come in. For me, it’s being so close to work that makes such a difference. I really like having somewhere where you can be supported by the people you live with …. and be able to make your own space, to create your own little vibe.

 

 

 

‘Home home’ will always be home. I think, I probably want to end up there again. Now –  where I am at life at the moment –  this is home.

 

 

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